My philosophy of life #NaBloPoMo #day27

My philosophy in life is simple and that is 'Never worry for anything'.

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How can we be cool always? Here is one perspective:

When there are some tough situations to handle and you are in deep worry and confused on how to handle things, think in this way...

1. If you cannot do anything to change the situation or you don't have any control of the situation, you need not worry in the first place. Because, there is nothing you can do to better situation and you are making yourselves sad unnecessarily.

2. If you can change the situation for better and you can control things but just worrying or afraid of something, this is not a time to worry. It is time for action. It is time to react instead of worrying. So, you shouldn't worry in this case too.

I think, for every problem that life gives us, only one of the above options is applicable. So, do it or not, but don't worry about it. What do you think of my opinion? Do let me know in comments.

Until next time,

This is my day 27 post for #NaBloPoMo challenge.

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Being ourselves is not easy #NaBloPoMo #day6

To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson. 

This quote made me think about being ourselves. Is it easy to be ourselves in all circumstances? I don't think so. 

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Let me tell you my experience..

I don't like hypocrites. From childhood, I always respected honesty and genuineness. I don't usually lie or exaggerate when i talk  to people, even to strangers. of course, I shouldn't expect the same with others. But, a few people become an expert in hypocrisy. They show too much affection and sugar coat words when they talk even though they don't mean a single word.

There is a problem when we deal with these people. Can we be ourselves before them and show honesty when we already know about their behaviour ? we change. We will be more cautious not to get cheated and the friendship becomes meaningless. 

Our attitude depends on the other people's. We have to change sometimes for good if we don't want others to take advantage of  us. 

I was sensitive and soft-spoken for a long time till my graduation. Later, I realised that this behaviour may not work in all situations. I changed myself to be hard and harsh when dealing with tough people. 

Do you also believe this quote is true  and that it's tough to be ourselves in this world? Obviously, being ourselves will be a great achievement.
Please do share your opinion in comments.

Until next time,

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